进行记

同样是基础性的体检，慈宁和体检中心的项目略有不同。

慈宁：牙齿检查
体检中心：无此项

体检中心：肛门检查
慈宁：无此项

肛门体检的大夫在我穿衣服的时候，自叹到自己在体检行业做着这个项目的不容易，我其实想说，被体检者也很不容易 -_-。当事双方均怀着复杂的情感，悲喜交加的情绪去面对这个行为。唉。。。（除了叹息，我也不知道该说什么好了）

体检的个别项目弄得我很不舒服，可能是心里太紧张的原因吧。

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我还想说：“关于密码的牢骚”
登录博客的密码，我就输入了5次，差点就想放弃了。可转念一下，生活中我又何尝不是经历过了N次差点就放弃的事情么？总是要坚持、忍耐一下，我想最终的欢迎界面还是会展现在我眼前的。

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今天回家还得二次吃春卷 -_- 起因见下：

妈：今天怎么才立春？不是昨天么？
爸：是啊～昨天是立春啊。那新闻里怎么说今天是立春？
妈：这是今天早晨的新闻么？是不是重播的？
爸：人家刚才播音员不是都说了，今天是2月4日立春。
妈：那可能是我记错了吧。
爸：是你错了还是新闻说错了？
妈：肯定是我记错了。那今天晚上再吃一次吧。

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我想周末，不想说话了。

小美人猪儿的故事

美丽动人小肉猪儿艾米莉是个向往冒险和浪漫的美丽人形猪，一心向往猪圈以外的缤纷世界。但是做为猪顿国王最小的女儿，她却只能被人形猪王国的法律所禁止与接触人类。

平时，艾米莉最好的朋友就是脑残人士鱼钩船长了，当然还有猪圈外面的李老师经常帮助她“辨认”她找到的人类的东西。在肮脏的猪圈里，艾米莉拥有自己的珍宝世界，全都是她搜集到的人类的东西。

在一次暴风雨中，当陆地上吴盐竹王子的船受到威胁的时候，叛逆的艾米莉还是救了吴盐竹，并和他一见钟情。

和王子分开后，更加强了她要到猪圈外面的决心。

情急之下，艾米莉不听好友鱼钩船长的警告，向丑陋的巫婆WXY求助，希望能够变成人类。但不怀好意的WXY，却野心勃勃地想夺取国王所统治的猪圈世界，想尽办法让艾米莉掉入陷阱。

WXY与艾米莉约定：用艾米莉动听的声音作为交换成为人类的条件，但是上岸后的第三天太阳下山前，只有得到吴王子的真爱之吻，才能成为真正的人类，否则她的灵魂将永远属于巫婆。

用自己甜美的声线来换上一双腿，走进人类的世界！可是那美好的梦想却变成与时间竞赛，艾米莉必须要挽回吴王子的爱及父亲的王国。因为如果自己不成功，WXY必定会让父王用王国来换取心爱女儿的灵魂。但是，艾米莉却不能再说话了。她一直在王子的身边，因为不能说话，王子并不知道她就是自己的救命恩人。而此时，她心爱的王子也将和另一位人间的公主结婚（忘恩负义。现代版陈世美。不要脸！！！）。正当艾米莉伤心欲绝，险些丧失灵魂的时候，一班好友赶来，在脑残鱼钩船长和其他朋友的帮助之下，艾米莉勇敢的冲出了猪圈，战胜魔咒，终于追寻到自己想拥有的感情！

从此，小猪艾米莉和吴盐竹王子幸福的生活在一起。。。。

THANK YOU FOR YOUR WATCHING.

小玩偶

阿猪总说他是小孩儿，我一本正经的告诉他：你不是小孩儿啦！其实我想说：我才是小孩呢。

新买的小宝，出来晒晒～回归一下貌似还没逝去的童年。

小企鹅的小别针，又小又肉呼。我鼓捣到我的双肩背上去了。

没眼珠子的大绿熊猫脑袋别针。也不知道它盯着看谁呢～假装盲人阿炳。

我觉得这娃娃像我：天天晃晃悠悠的背个小破包；两片假发似的头发扑脸颊的两边；村儿红村儿红的小脸。

最后隆重出场的是：阿猪。裸体NO FACE阿猪！小细胳膊小细腿，挺着一个大肚子，美颠儿美颠儿的小怂样～我让你气我？！我让你气我？！我掐你的嘴～哈哈～

150部经典电影 你看过哪些？

1. 三色：蓝白红 （ Three Colours: Blue | Kieslowski, Krszystof | 1993 )
2. 低俗小说 （ Pulp Fiction | Tarantino, Quentin | 1994 )
3. 穆赫兰道 （ Mulholland Dr. | Lynch, David | 2001 )
4. 辛德勒名单 （ Schindler’s List | Spielberg, Steven | 1993 )
5. 一一 （ Yi yi | 杨德昌 Yang, Edward | 2000 )
6. 破浪 （ Breaking the Waves | von Trier, Lars | 1996 )
7. 樱桃的滋味 （ Taste of Cherry, A | Kiarostami, Abbas | 1997 )
8. 永恒与一天 （ Eternity and a Day | Angelopoulos, Theo | 1998 )
9. 罗塞塔 （ Rosetta | Luc and Jean-Pierre Dardenne | 1999 )
10. 魔戒 （ The Lord of the Rings | Jackson, Peter | 2001 )

11. 禁闭双眼 （ Eyes Wide Shut | Kubrick, Stanley | 1999 )
12. 海上花 （The Flowers of Shanghai | 侯孝贤 | 1998 )
13. 大象 （ Elephant | Gus Vant Sant | 2003 )
14. 纯真年代 （ Age of Innocence, The | Scorsese, Martin | 1993 )
15. 撒旦探戈 （ Sátántangó | Tarr, Béla | 1994 )
16. 冰血暴 （ Fargo | Coen, Joel and Ethan Coen | 1995 )
17. 撞车 （ Crash | Cronenberg, David | 1996 )
18. 鳗鱼 （ The Eel | 今村昌平 | 1997 )
19. 风儿带着我们飘 （ Wind Will Carry Us, The | Kiarostami, Abbas | 1999 )
20. 阿甘正传 （ Forrest Gump | Zemeckis, Robert | 1994 )

21. 肖申克的救赎（ Shawshank Redemption, The | Darabont, Frank| 1994 )
22. 暴雨将至 （ Before the Rain | Milcho Manchevski | 1994 )
23. 钢琴课 （ Piano, The | Campion, Jane | 1993 )
24. 短片集 （ Short Cuts | Altman, Robert | 1993 )
25. 亲爱的日记 （ Caro diario | Moretti, Nanni | 1994 )
26. 地下 （ Underground | Kusturica, Emir | 1995 )
27. 千与千寻 （ Spirited Away | 宫崎骏 | 2001 )
28. 神秘之河 （ Mystic River | Clint Eastwood | 2003 )
29. 风吹麦浪 （ The Wind That Shakes The Barley | Ken Loach | 2006 )
30. 这个杀手不太冷 （ Léon | Luc Besson | 1994 )

31. 离魂异客 （ Dead Man | Jarmusch, Jim | 1995 )
32. 云上的日子 （ Beyond the Clouds | Michelangelo Antonioni | 1995 )
33. 橄榄树下 （ Through the Olive Trees | Kiarostami, Abbas | 1994 )
34. 戏梦人生 （ Puppetmaster, The | 侯孝贤 Hou Hsiao-Hsien | 1993 )
35. 红色警戒 （ Thin Red Line, The | Malick, Terrence | 1998 )
36. 花火 （ Hana-Bi | 北野武 | 1997 )
37. 重庆森林 （ Chungking Express | 王家卫 Wong Kar-Wai | 1994 )
38. 花样年华 （ In the Mood for Love | 王家卫 Wong Kar-Wai | 2000 )
39. 关于我的母亲 （ All About My Mother | Almodóvar, Pedro | 1999 )
40. 瓦力 （ WALL-E | Andrew Stanton | 2008 )

41. 英国病人 （ The English Patient | Anthony Minghella | 1996 )
42. 洛城机密 （ L.A. Confidential | Hanson, Curtis | 1997 )
43. 中央车站 （ Central Station | Salles, Walter | 1998 )
44. 黑暗中的舞者 （ Dancer in the Dark | Lars von Trier | 2000 )
45. 卧虎藏龙 （ Wo hu cang long | 李安 | 2000 )
46. 断背山 （ Brokeback Mountain | Ang Lee | 2005 )
47. 鬼吸血 （ Irma Vep | Assayas, Olivier | 1996 )
48. 霸王别姬 （ Farewell, My Concubine | 陈凯歌 Chen Kaige | 1993 )
49. 赌场 （ Casino | Scorsese, Martin | 1995 )
50. 泰坦尼克号 （ Titanic | James Cameron | 1997 )

51-100

•赤裸 （ Naked | Leigh, Mike | 1993 )
•爱情万岁 （ Vive L’Amour | 蔡明亮 | 1994 )
•活着 （ To Live | 张艺谋 Zhang Yimou | 1994 )
•烈日灼人 （ Burnt by the Sun | Mikhalkov, Nikita | 1994 )
•理智与情感 （ Sense and Sensibility | Ang Lee | 1995 )
•仇恨（ Haine, La | Mathieu Kassovitz | 1995 ）
•三轮车夫 （ Cyclo | 陈英雄 | 1995 )
•勇敢的心 （ Braveheart | Mel Gibson | 1995 )
•盗火线 （ Heat | Mann, Michael | 1995 )
•玩具总动员 （ Toy Story | John Lasseter | 1995 )
•尤利西斯的凝视 （ Ulysses’ Gaze | Theo Angelopoulos | 1995 )
•远离赌城 （Leaving Las Vegas | Mike Figgis | 1995)
•猜火车 （ Trainspotting | Danny Boyle | 1996 )
•秘密与谎言 （ Secrets & Lies | mike leigh | 1996 )
•妖夜荒踪 （ Lost Highway | Lynch, David | 1996 )
•幽灵公主 （ Mononoke-hime | 宫崎骏 | 1997 )
•美丽人生 （ Vita è bella, La | Roberto Benigni | 1997 )
•意外的春天 （ Sweet Hereafter, The | Egoyan, Atom | 1997 )
•不羁夜 （ Boogie Nights | Anderson, Paul Thomas | 1997 )
•罗拉快跑 （ Run Lola Run | Tom Tykwer | 1998 )
•拯救大兵瑞恩 （ Saving Private Ryan | Steven Spielberg | 1998 )
•楚门的世界 （ The Truman Show | Peter Weir | 1998 )
•军中禁恋 （ Beau travail | Denis, Claire | 1998 )
•搏击俱乐部 （ Fight Club | Fincher, David | 1999 )
•酣歌畅戏 （ Topsy-Turvy | Mike Leigh | 1999 )
•黑客帝国 （ The Matrix | Andy & Larry Wachowski | 1999 )
•美国美人 （ American Beauty | Sam Mendes | 1999 )
•木兰花 （ Magnolia | Anderson, Paul Thomas | 1999 )
•站台 （ Platform | 贾樟柯 | 2000 )
•梦之安魂曲 （ Requiem for a Dream | Darren Aronofsky | 2000 )
•记忆碎片 （ Memento | Christopher Nolan | 2000 )
•天使艾米莉 （ Fabuleux destin d’Amélie Poulain, Le | Jean-Pierre Jeunet | 2001 )
•儿子的房间 （ The Son’s Room | Nanni Moretti | 2001 )
•绿洲 （ Oasis | 李沧东 | 2002 )
•对她说 （ Talk to Her | Almodóvar, Pedro | 2002 )
•上帝之城 （ Cidade de Deus | Fernando Meirelles | 2002 )
•俄罗斯方舟 （ Russian Ark | Sokurov, Aleksandr | 2002 )
•钢琴师 （ The Pianist | Roman Polanski | 2002 )
•杀人的回忆 （ Memories of Murder | 奉俊昊 | 2003 )
•迷失东京 （ Lost in Translation | Sofia Coppols | 2003 )
•老男孩 （ Oldboy | 朴赞郁 | 2003 )
•杀死比尔 （ Kill Bill | Quentin Tarantino | 2004 )
•百万美元宝贝 （ Million Dollar Baby | Clint Eastwood | 2004 )
•隐藏 （ Caché | Michael Haneke | 2005 )
•孩子 （ L’Enfant | Luc and Jean-Pierre Dardenne | 2005 )
•巴别塔 （ Babel | Alejandro Gonzalez Inarritu | 2006 )
•窃听风暴 （ Das Leben der Anderen | Florian Henckel-Donnersmarck | 2006 )
•四月三周两天 （ 4 luni, 3 saptamini si 2 zile | Cristian Mungiu | 2007 )
•老无所依 （ No Country for Old Men | Coen, Joel and Ethan Coen | 2007 )
•格莫拉 （ Gomorra | Matteo Garrone | 2008 )
101-150

•红松鼠杀人事件 （ Ardilla roja, La | Julio Medem | 1993 )
•吸烟/不吸烟 （ Smoking/No Smoking | Alain Resnais | 1993 )
•咫尺天涯 （ Faraway, So Close! | Wim Wenders | 1993 )
•偷天情缘 （ Groundhog Day | Ramis, Harold | 1993 )
•四个婚礼和一个葬礼 （ Four Weddings and a Funeral | Mike Newell | 1994 )
•以父之名 （ In the Name of the Father | Jim Sheridan | 1994 )
•爱德·伍德 （ Ed Wood | Tim Burton | 1994 )
•普通嫌疑犯 （ The Usual Suspects | Bryan Singer | 1994 )
•情书 （ Love Letter | 岩井俊二 | 1995 )
•冷酷祭典 （ La Ceremonie | Claude Chabrol | 1995 )
•十二只猴子 （ Twelve Monkeys | Terry Gilliam | 1995 )
•无知时刻 （ Moment of Innocence, A | Makhmalbaf, Mohsen | 1995 )
•七宗罪 （ Se7en | David Fincher | 1995 )
•夜夜夜贼 （ Voleurs, Les | Andre Techine | 1996 )
•勇闯夺命岛 （ The Rock | Michael Bay | 1996 )
•职业特工队 （ Mission: Impossible | Brian DePalma | 1996 )
•迈克尔·柯林斯 （ Michael Collins | Neil Jordan | 1996 )
•一脱到底 （ The Full Monty | Peter Cattaneo | 1997 )
•海上钢琴师 （ The Legend of 1900 | Giuseppe Tornatore | 1998 )
•秋天的故事 （ Conte d’automne | Eric Rohmer | 1998 )
•紫醉金迷 （ Velvet Goldmine | Todd Haynes | 1998 )
•西伯利亚理发师 （ The Barber Of Siberia | Nikita Mikhalkov | 1998 )
•两只大烟枪 （ Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels | Guy Ritchie | 1998 )
•那一个晚上 （ Festen | Vinterberg, Thomas | 1998 )
•天使热爱的生活 （ Vie rêvée des anges, La | Erick Zonca | 1998 )
•第六感 （ The Sixth Sense | M. Night Shyamalan | 1999 )
•人性 （ L’Humanité | Bruno Dumont | 1999 )
•爱情是狗娘 （ Amores perros | Alejandro Gonzalez Inarritu | 2000 )
•鬼子来了 （ Devils on the Doorstep | 姜文 | 2000 )
•几近成名 （ Almost Famous | Cameron Crowe | 2000 )
•角斗士 （ Gladiator | Ridley Scott | 2000 )
•怪物史莱克 （ Shrek | Andrew Adamson | 2001 )
•天才一族 （ The Royal Tenenbaums | Wes Anderson | 2001 )
•钢琴教师 （ Piano Teacher | Michael Haneke | 2001 )
•红磨坊 （ Moulin Rouge! | Luhrmann, Baz | 2001 )
•缺席的人 （ The Man Who Wasn’t There | Coen, Joel and Ethan Coen | 2001 )
•没有过去的男人 （ The Man Without A Past | Aki Kaurism?ki | 2002 )
•血腥星期天 （ Bloody Sunday | Paul Greengrass | 2002 )
•乌扎克 （ Uzak | Nuri Bilge Ceylan | 2002 )
•疯狂约会美丽都 （ Triplettes de Belleville, Les | Sylvain Chomet | 2003 )
•再见列宁 （ Good bye, Lenin! | Wolfgang Becker | 2003 )
•勇往直前 （ Gegen die Wand | Fatih Akin | 2004 )
•撞车 （ Crash | Paul Haggis | 2004 )
•赛末点 （ Match Point | Woody Allen | 2005 )
•关塔那摩之路（ The Road to Guantánamo | Michael Winterbottom | 2006 )
•回归 （ Volver | Pedro Almodóvar | 2006 )
•三峽好人 （ Still Life | 贾樟柯 | 2006 )
•无间行者 （ The Departed | Scorsese, Martin | 2006 )
•摔跤王 （ The Wrestler | Darren Aronofsky | 2008 )
•墙壁之间 （ Entre les murs | Laurent Cantet | 2008 )

红色字体是我看过的，数数你看过几部了～

阿猪SAID

我提前5分钟去，我直接走上讲台，大家好，我是今天的代班老师，我叫吴盐竹，经过我仔细分析后得出了一条重要理论：这课没法上了，我通过忽悠校长，忽悠年轻时候搓麻绳，现在搓麻将的干部，他们一致通过，制定改革措施，那就是以后上课爱来不来，最好别来，而且从今往后，不用考试，直接发成绩单，同学们的成绩均在优秀附近徘徊，大家最期望的证书也会在毕业时候发给各位，好，下面放学。同学们说：“谢谢吴盐竹老师说出了我们的心声。”

10 years ago and later...

Parents

• 10 years ago, we were children of our parents;
• 10 years later, we become parents of our children.
• 10 years ago, I had a home full of joys and affection ;
• 10 years later, I feel warmth of family then and not till then.
• 10 years ago, I yearned for leaving far away from home,
• 10 years later, I am longing to return my drifting heart home.
• 10 years ago, I shouted and thunder at my parents;
• 10 years later, I wish my parents scold me again even in my dream.

Love

• 10 years ago, you were my desk mate,
• 10 years later, you become the wife of the other guy.
• 10 years ago, I sang My Desk mate for you,
• 10 years later, I am thinking of you my dear desk mate.
• 10 years ago, the only problem we faced was exam,
• 10 years later, we have to face all except for exam.
• 10 years ago, I remembered your sweet smile at me at your downstairs;
• 10 years later, I unwittingly saw you nagging at your child with a stony face at your downstairs.
• 10 years ago, I yearned for marriage at every moment;
• 10 years later, I am longing to fall in love one more time.
• 10 years ago, we felt shy when talking about love;
• 10 years later, awkward only can be seen on our face when talking about love.
• 10 years ago, I yearned for love but didn’t know what true love was;
• 10 years later, I have know what love is but can never own love.
• 10 years ago, I like girls with nice appearances;
• 10 years later, I have an ugly wife at home.
• 10 years ago, I fell in love first time;
• 10 years later, I am divorced for the first time.

Work

• 10 years ago, I looked about public telephone just for a call;
• 10 years later, I have mobile phone but still rushing all around.
• 10 years ago, I aimed to earn 1000 yuan a month;
• 10 years later, I earn 6000 yuan a month but still unhappy.
• 10 years ago. I was mostly scared of criticism;
• 10 years later, it’s hard to win criticism.
• 10 years ago, 200 yuan was enough for me to live a month;
• 10 years later, it costs me 2000 yuan for one meal.
• 10 years ago, we were in school uniforms, brilliant sunshine naturally overflowing from austerity;
• 10 years later, we are in name brand clothes, a touch of somber mood arising from this kind of illusive luxury.
• 10 years ago, we went to class unkemptly with sweat stains on face;
• 10 years later, we must dress in neat and with smile for work.
• 10 years ago, I rabidly abominated corruption;
• 10 years later, I belong to the ranks of corruption;

Belief

• 10 years ago, I thought that I were a sky-reaching tree;
• 10 years later, I realize that I am nothing more than a tiny grass.
• 10 years ago, time was the only thing I can waste;
• 10 years later, I can waste anything except for time.
• 10 years ago, youth was unrepentant to us;
• 10 years later, youth is far away from us.
• 10 years ago, we felt proud that we can play with life;
• 10 years later, we are trapped in the game of life.

Life

• 10 years ago, I rode to home whistling brightly;
• 10 years later, I drive on road bounding for social intercourse answering phones in succession.
• 10 years ago, I dreamed of staying in a five star hotel;
• 10 years later, I am longing to return home even if living in a five star hotel.
• 10 years ago, I yearned for traveling by air once;
• 10 years later, I am afraid of taking plane most.
• 10 years ago, I hoped that I was the boy sitting opposite the girl when I passed by the window of coffee shop after playing football;
• 10 years later, I hope I am that boy who passes by the window of the coffee shop just now after playing football.
• 10 years ago, native dishes are tasteless to me;
• 10 years later, I have no taste for all foods except for native dishes.
• 10 years ago, I was the main force of volleyball team due to my healthy waist;
• 10 years later, I am diagnosed as kidney basin protrusion
• 10 years ago, I was forced to sit at the desk and attend a lecture care- fully by parents and teacher;
• 10 years later, I want to attend a lecture again but can not find a desk.
• 10 years ago, I despised of drunkard in front of restaurant gate and sworn not drinking alcoholic all my life;
• 10 years later, I become that drunkard.
• 10 years ago, I dreamed of driving my own car some day and no longer walking on foot;
• 10 years later, I prefer walking on foot to driving self-owned car.
• 10 years ago, I felt blushed when touching a girl;
• 10 years later, I am accused of sexual harassment.
• 10 years ago, I did not know what streetwalker means;
• 10 years later, I can only unburden myself to a call girl.
• 10 years ago, I hoped to grow up and be mature;
• 10 years later, I go to beauty salon fancying for perennial youth.
• 10 years ago, I craved for eating meat with every meal;
• 10 years later, I crave for vegetables with every meal.

生活大爆炸

除了好看就是好看～好看好看好看好看！！！

多么美好啊～

不知道是不是感觉年龄的增长速度有点快，说白了就是：感觉自己老了？还是怎么了。原来只穿黑色或者蓝色灰色的我，现在居然也开始了彩虹般不靠谱的打扮了。

颜色描述：柠檬黄的帽子；黄黑条的毛衣；正红色小包；桃粉色的小鞋；紫色的帽衫。

颜色多好啊～苆成一窝蜂～OHYEAH～

人生在于完整

Once a circle missed a wedge. the circle wanted to be whole, so it went around looking for its missing piece. but because it was incomplete and therefore could roll only very slowly, it admired the flowers along the way. it chatted with worms. it enjoyed the sunshine. it found lots of different pieces, but none of them fit. so it left them all by the side of the road and kept on searching. then one day the circle found a piece that fit perfectly. it was so happy. now it could be whole, with nothing missing. it incorporated the missing piece into itself and began to roll. now that it was a perfect circle, it could roll very fast, too fast to notice the flowers of talking to the worms. when it realized how different the world seemed when it rolled so quickly, it stopped, left its found piece by the side of the road and rolled slowly away.

The lesson of the story, i suggested, was that in some strange sense we are more whole when we are missing something. the man who has everything is in some ways a poor man. he will never know what if feels like to yearn, to hope, to nourish his soul with the dream of something better. he will never know the experience of having someone who loves him give him something he has always wanted or never had.

There is a wholeness about the person who has come to terms with his limitations, who has been brave enough to let go of his unrealistic dreams and not feel like a failure for doing so. there is a wholeness about the man or woman who has learned that he or she is strong enough to go through a tragedy and survive, she can lose someone and still feel like a complete person.

Life is not a trap set for us by god so that he can condemn us for failing. life is not a spelling bee, where no matter how many words you’ve gotten right, you’re disqualified if you make one mistake. life is more like a baseball season, where even the best team loses one-third of its games and even the worst team has its days of brilliance. our goal is to win more games than we lose.

When we accept that imperfection is part of being human, and when we can continue rolling through life and appreciate it, we will have achieved a wholeness that others can only aspire to. that, i believe, is what god asks of us---not “be perfect”, not “don’t even make a mistake”, but “be whole.”

If we are brave enough to love, strong enough to forgive, generous enough to rejoice in another ‘s happiness, and wise enough to know there is enough love to go around for us all, then we can achieve a fulfillment that no other living creature will ever know.

【中文译文】:

从前有一只圆圈缺了一块楔子。圆圈想保持完整，便四处寻找失去的那块楔子。由于它不完整，所以只能滚动很慢。一路上，它对花儿露出羡慕之色。它与蠕虫谈天侃地。它还欣赏到了阳光之美。圆圈找到了许许多多不同的配件，但是没有一件能完美地与它相配。所以，它将它们统统弃置路旁，继续寻觅。终于有一天，它找到了一个完美的配件。圆圈是那样地高兴，现在它可以说是完美无缺了。它装好配件，然后滚动起来。既然它已成了一个完整的圆圈，所以滚动得非常快，快得以至于无暇观赏花儿，也无暇与蠕虫倾诉心声。圆圈快奔急骋，发现眼中的世界变得如此不同，于是，它不禁停了下来，将找到的那个配件留在路旁，又开始了慢慢地滚动。


我觉得这个故事告诉我们，从某种奇妙意义上讲，当我们失去了一些东西时反而感到更加完整。一个拥有一切的人其实在某些方面是个穷人。他永远也体会不到什么是渴望、期待以及对美好梦想的感悟。他也永远不会有这样一种体验：一个爱他的人送给他某种他梦寐以求的或者从未拥有过的东西意味什么。

人生的完整性在于一个人知道如何面对他的缺陷，如何勇敢地摒弃那些不现实的幻想而又不以此为缺憾。人生的完整性还在于一个男人或女人懂得这样一个道理：他（她）发现自己能勇敢面对人生悲剧而继续生存，能够在失去亲人后依然表现出一个完整的人的风范。

人生不是上帝为谴责我们的缺陷而给我们布下的陷阱。人生也不是一场拼字游戏比赛。不管你拼出多少单词，一旦出现了一个错误，你便前功尽弃。人生更像是一个棒球赛季。即使最好的球队比赛也会输掉1/3，而最差的球队也有春风得意的日子。我们的目标就是多赢球，少输球。

我们接受了不完整性是人类本性的一部分，我们不断地进行人生滚动并能意识到其价值，我们就会完整人生的过程。而对于别人来讲，这只能是一个梦想。我相信这就是上帝对我们的要求：不求“完美”，也不求“永不犯错误”，而是求得人生的“完整”。

如果我们勇敢得能够去爱，坚强得能够去宽容，大度得能够去分享他人的幸福，明智得能够理解身边充满爱，那么我们就能取得别的生物所不能取得的成就。

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